Have you ever solved a problem when you think it seemed like you
couldn't handle by yourself in your life? In our life, we always get in trouble
whether or not you want. What would you do for handling a problem as usual? It’s
safe to say that the ways to solve the problems can narrow down to two things.
One thing is that we can listen to an advice of the other people. The other
thing is that you just handle the problems by yourself and then you can learn
about life through your experiences. For me, I have a one person who can ask my
problem to him. He is my teacher in my church. I always ask him ‘what should do
I do?’ when I get in trouble or I have to choose just one thing. He always gave
me the best choices. But even though he give a lot of choices that I can
choose, in the end it is my job to choose just one thing. I prefer to learn about
life through my experience. What makes me prefer it?
For one thing is that we are still young. It means that if you do
something else that you choose, it end up with failing, but it is not late to
do some the other thing. If you do the other thing after your fail, you can do
the thing well with your experience.
The other thing is that you can learn well about life through your
experience more than listening to an advice of your friends or family. Having a
experience can be more effective on your life.
But there is a negative impact for learning about
life through your experience. It will take a long time to learn about life.
To the
bottom line, I can say the ways learning about life through my own experience and listening to an advice of family and friends are good.
I agree that the more a person listens to other’s advice, the more it’s his or her job to choose one of them in the end. Real experience is really valuable than indirect one.
답글삭제I agree with your opinion some degree, but I think your opinion is little bit different from me. I laid more stress on listening to advice than having an personal experience.
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